Ego centered expectations, aggressive implementation of unconscious beliefs.
Taking a part in their family dealings as a grandma/grandpa maintaining the grand children … causing frustration. These are the set point a west portion, life starts shutting down towards the west, encloses the thoughts and behavior of deficiencies and controversies.
The graph of the human “I” is shown like this:
A graph inclines upto the age 30 and stagnant for another +10 =40 and get start declining down till the date of death.
An increasing phase up to the age of 30 years, we feel a care from the parent, and from the society
Next is a stagnation period may be around 5 years or till the period of getting a child
Finally is a declining phase where we start finding the following:
‘Ego centered values of expectations, aggressive implementation of our unconscious beliefs.”
“Self adopting a neurotic and aggressive commitments “
What is ego centering values and expectations:
Human is basically a social animal. He cannot handle any way of lifestyle as individual. His conscious is always towards the gratification of fame and pleasure from the external./a group.
See the origin of human, he started living in groups as animal. His perceiving strength is based on the external values more and the internal values were less. Because sensing the stimuli from the external world only teaches him a vast portion of his intelligence and awareness.
So, the ego of “I “- a key factor of conscious drives every human to lead a life. As psychologist said, “life is a struggle” and” death is a relief from this struggle”. An instinct of life and death deals the concept of such philosophy.
Hence, ego that is “I” a drive of feelings, which is a structured block of mind, drives the human to compete the world and his pleasure seeking principles. Such values and expectations cause stress, and anxiety... A fear or achievement, a fear of appraisal, a fear of authenticity, fear recognition.
He himself develops an aggressive drive and expectations by way of commitments and leads to a neurotic stage of physical status thus causing psychosomatic disorders this causing a major loss of virulence and immunity of the health.
This leads him to an unhealthy status a set point… a west… a declining phase.
What is your mental construct, what you have learned from your internal and external values of survival?
What is your motto or your origin? What really gives you a pleasure? How to differentiate good and bad? Where are norms to implement? What really starves you and which drives you very fast without your personal control? Where you loose your self-control?




Doctor S. M. Pandian
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